It moves on..

Death! This has to be the worst fact of life. A loved one leaving you forever is the hardest reality to digest. Someone going to a place unknown and then no means of contact, no phone calls, no emails, no Skype or SMS even? Not fair eh?

Death leaves an irreparable mark on your mind, body and soul and yet you live. You smile, laugh, eat, go to work, sleep party with friends... Well you live. I find it quite ironic and somewhat interesting as well as how we manage to move on with life. A person who might have been the world to you leaves and you feel stranded alone on an island but yet like Robinson Crusoe you resurrect a life for you. This is how life is supposed to be then I guess. It's a constant process, a constant struggle if I try to review it through my past experiences. You lose people and you feel choked instantly but that rope tied around your neck is released slowly and gently, well not gently, forever goodbyes can Not be gentle but anyway the blurriness caused by the tears clears away and then you feel better... Normal! But mind you,the heart wrenching pain is still there but you get used to it.

They say; 'Time is a great healer'. And I believe that is an over rated statement that I have heard a gazillion times. Time only helps you in getting used to the pain. Nothing else!
Life can be easily, infact conveniently summed up into three words.. It moves on! Simple!